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Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
Website:
www.svgla.org
THE FAMILY
CONNECTSHEN
T HE FAMILY CONNECT SHEN
Mail:
P.O. Box 1023
Harrisonburg, VA 22803
Email:
SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Harvey Milk Honored with Forever Postage Stamp
Mission Statement:
The purpose of the
Shenandoah Valley Gay
and Lesbian Association
is to create a safe, affirming, and fun environment
where members are empowered to reach their
full human potential.
The U.S. Postal Service officially revealed the Harvey Milk Forever Stamp in
May. The stamp’s official first-day-of-issue ceremony took place on May 22 at
the White House. The image is based on a circa 1977 black and white photograph of Milk in front of his Castro Street Camera store in San Francisco.
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Valley Events (pgs. 13-14)
First Friday potlucks
Capital Pride
PFLAG meetings
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EMPOWER YOUR
COMMUNITY!
Join SVGLA
(Membership Form pg. 15)
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The SVGLA “Family
Connectshen” is published quarterly (in
March, June, September, and December).
Contact the editor
SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Harvey Milk was a visionary leader who became one of the first openly gay
elected officials in the US when he won a seat on the San Francisco Board of
Supervisors in 1977. Milk’s achievements gave hope to the LGBT community
in the United States and elsewhere at a time when the community was encountering widespread hostility and discrimination.
His political career was tragically cut short less than a year after he took office
in California when he and San Francisco Mayor George Moscone were assassinated on Nov. 27, 1978.
In 2009, Harvey Milk was posthumously awarded the Medal of Freedom by
President Barack Obama.
Food for Thought:
Memorable Passages in Recent Equal Marriage Decisions
Bernard A. Friedman, Senior United States District Judge, Eastern District of Michigan
Appointed by President Ronald Regan
The state defendants’ position suffers from a glaring inconsistency. Even assuming that children
raised by same-sex couples fare worse than children raised by heterosexual married couples, the state
defendants fail to explain why Michigan law does not similarly exclude certain classes of heterosexual
couples from marrying whose children persistently have had “sub-optimal” developmental outcomes.
Taking the state defendants’ position to its logical conclusion, the empirical evidence at hand should
require that only rich, educated, suburban-dwelling, married Asians may marry, to the exclusion of all
other heterosexual couples. Obviously the state has not adopted this policy and with good reason.
The absurdity of such a requirement is self-evident. Optimal academic outcomes for children cannot
logically dictate which groups may marry.
Many Michigan residents have religious convictions whose principles govern the conduct of their
daily lives and inform their own viewpoints about marriage. Nonetheless, these views cannot strip
other citizens of the guarantees of equal protection under the law. The same Constitution that protects the free exercise of one’s faith in deciding whether to solemnize certain marriages rather than
others, is the same Constitution that prevents the state from either mandating adherence to an established religion or “enforcing private moral or religious beliefs without an accompanying secular purpose.”
Michael J. McShane, United States District Judge, District of Oregon
Appointed by President Barack Obama
Expanding the embrace of civil marriage to gay and lesbian couples will not burden any legitimate
state interest. The attractiveness of marriage to opposite-gender couples is not derived from its inaccessibility to same-gender couples. The well-being of Oregon's children is not enhanced by destabilizing and limiting the rights and resources available to gay and lesbian families.
It is at times difficult to see past the shrillness of the debate. Accusations of religious bigotry and
banners reading "God Hates Fags" make for a messy democracy and, at times, test the First Amendment resolve of both sides. At the core of the Equal Protection Clause, however, there exists a foundational belief that certain rights should be shielded from the barking crowds; that certain rights are
subject to ownership by all and not the stake hold of popular trend or shifting majorities.
If we can look for a moment past gender and sexuality, we can see in these plaintiffs nothing more
or less than our own families. Families who we would expect our Constitution to protect, if not exalt, in equal measure. With discernment we see not shadows lurking in closets or the stereotypes of
what was once believed; rather, we see families committed to the common purpose of love, devotion, and service to the greater community.
Food for Thought:
Memorable Passages in Recent Equal Marriage Decisions
John E. Jones, III, United States District Judge, Middle District of Pennsylvania
Appointed by President George W. Bush
This Court is not only moved by the logic that the fundamental right to marry is a personal right to be exercised by the individual, but also rejects Defendants’ contention that concepts of history and tradition dictate that same-sex marriage is excluded from the fundamental right to marry. The right Plaintiffs seek to
exercise is not a new right, but is rather a right that these individuals have always been guaranteed by the
United States Constitution.
The issue we resolve today is a divisive one. Some of our citizens are made deeply uncomfortable by the
notion of same-sex marriage. However, that same-sex marriage causes discomfort in some does not make
its prohibition constitutional. Nor can past tradition trump the bedrock constitutional guarantees of due
process and equal protection. Were that not so, ours would still be a racially segregated nation according to
the now rightfully discarded doctrine of “separate but equal.” In the sixty years since Brown was decided,
“separate” has thankfully faded into history, and only “equal” remains. Similarly, in future generations the
label same-sex marriage will be abandoned, to be replaced simply by marriage.
We are a better people than what these laws represent, and it is time to discard them into the ash heap of
history.
Same-Sex Marriage Support Reaches New High at 55%
In the latest May 8-11 poll, there is clear evidence that support for gay marriage has solidified above the majority level. This comes on the heels of gay marriage proponents' 14th
The Times They Are A-Changin!
Arkansas: A state judge struck down the state's same-sex marriage ban, although
the state Supreme Court issued a stay to halt same-sex marriages.
Idaho: A federal judge ruled that Idaho's same-sex marriage ban is unconstitutional. It is unclear whether a stay will be issued.
Illinois: Same-sex marriages will be legal as of June 1, 2014.
Indiana: The State Senate passed HJR-6, which would enact a constitutional
amendment to prevent same-sex marriage or civil unions if approved by voters. If
the measure passes again after the 2012 elections, the measure could be on the
ballot in November 2014.
Michigan: A District Court judge struck down the same-sex marriage ban, although the ruling was put on hold.
Nevada: The State Senate and Assembly passed a bill to repeal the state constitutional ban on same-sex marriage and legalize same-sex marriage. The bill will need
to pass again in 2015 to go on the ballot in 2016. Also, Sevcik v. Sandoval is now
on appeal before the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals.
Oklahoma: A federal judge struck down the ban on same-sex marriage, although
the decision was stayed by the governor pending an appeal.
Pennsylvania: May 2014: Marriage is legal - A federal judge struck down the
state's same-sex marriage ban and allowed same-sex marriages to begin immediately.
Texas: A federal judge struck down the same-sex marriage ban as unconstitutional, although he stayed his ruling pending appeal from the state.
Utah: A federal judge struck down the ban on same-sex marriage, although the
decision was stayed by the governor pending an appeal.
Virginia: A federal judge struck down the same-sex marriage ban in the case Bostic
v. Rainey. The ruling was stayed pending appeal.
PFLAG Blue Ridge
Serving Charlottesville, Harrisonburg, and
Surrounding Central Virginia Areas
We are parents, families, friends, and allies uniting with
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender loved ones to
promote support, education, and advocacy.
www.pflagblueridge.org
PFLAGBR@gmail.com
https://www.facebook.com/pflagblueridge
https://twitter.com/PFLAGBR
PFLAG Blue Ridge offers free monthly community groups for anyone who identifies as
lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or questioning, as well as parents, family, friends,
and allies. If you are a parent, family member, or friend of a gay, lesbian, bisexual, and/or
transgender individual looking to increase your support, or if your loved one has recently
come out to you and you are struggling to process your own feelings as well as looking for
resources to help understand — we are here for you. Join us as we share our experiences, joys,
concerns, and resources in a confidential and non-judgmental environment.
Meeting Information
Harrisonburg LGBTQ+ and Allies Group Meetings
When:
Where:
Contact:
Note:
First Thursday of each month, 6:30 - 8:00 p.m.
Blue Ridge Hall, Room 309, 601 University Blvd, JMU
Facilitator Mark at mitchmarke@aol.com or 540-405-1227
Meetings coincide with Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Group
Charlottesville Trans* Families Group Meetings
When:
Where:
Contact:
3rd Saturday of each month, 5:30 - 7:00 p.m.
ASG, 315 Tenth St. NE, Charlottesville, VA 22902 (corner of 10th & Jefferson)
Facilitator Karen at karenmeandering@gmail.com or 434-882-3453
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Meetings
The Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance holds meetings the first Thursday of each
month from 6:30 to 8:00pm at Blue Ridge Hall, Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on
the campus of JMU.
Young people aged 14-20 from the Harrisonburg and surrounding communities who
identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning are welcome to
attend. We aim to provide a safe and confidential space for youth to talk, listen,
laugh, share, and reflect on what it's like to be an LGBTQ teen in the Shenandoah
Valley.
PFLAG Blue Ridge (www.pflagblueridge.org/harrisonburg.html) also holds meetings on the first Thursday of each month in the same building.
Visit our website at http://www.svyesalliance.org/index.html or Facebook page
(www.facebook.com/SVYesAlliance). Please like us and share with your friends!
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance e-mail address: svyesalliance@gmail.com
YOUR ADVERTISEMENT HERE!
$15/issue or $50/year (4 issues): Business Card
$25 per issue or $80/year: Quarter Page
$50/issue or $175/year: Half Page
$100 for a Full Page ad per issue
Contact SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Deadline for September newsletter is August 15
We’ve Adopted a Highway!
SVGLA has adopted a section of highway near Harrisonburg
through the Virginia Department of Transportation.
It’s fun, it’s good exercise, and it’s great for our planet.
Help us be good neighbors in our community.
Our next outing is Sat., June 21
(June 28 is the makeup date).
Meet us for breakfast at 8am, then we’ll tidy up the highway afterward.
Help SVGLA on June 21 and receive a gift
card for a FREE wine-tasting at
The Winery at Kindred Pointe
The first three NEW volunteers who join us at the
Little Grill in Harrisonburg for breakfast and help
with the Adopt-a-Highway cleanup afterward will receive a gift card for a FREE wine tasting at the Winery at Kindred Pointe in Mount Jackson (donated by
Christine Robinson). Contact SVGLAssociation@gmail.com if you have questions.
www.facebook.com/TheWineryAtKindredPointe
www.kindredpointe.com/#!wineryvineyard
Community Organizations
American Civil Liberties Union of Virginia
acluva.org/tag/equal-rights/
BC Allies (Bridgewater College) www.bridgewater.edu/student-life/activities-andorganizations/clubs-organizations-and-honor-societies
Coalition for Transgender Rights in Virginia
Equality Virginia
transgenderrightsva.org/
www.equalityvirginia.org
EMU Safe Space
www.emu.edu/studentlife/clubs/safe-space/
JMU LGBTQ Faculty & Staff Group
www.jmu.edu/lgbtfacultystaff
JMU LGBT & Ally Education Program
www.jmu.edu/lgbta/
LGBT Democrats of Virginia
lgbtvadem.org/
Log Cabin Republican Club of Virginia
www.virginialogcabin.org/
Madison Equality JMU
www.facebook.com/madisonequality
PFLAG Blue Ridge
www.pflagblueridge.org and pflagbr@gmail.com
Safe Zone JMU
www.jmu.edu/safezone/
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance
www.svyesalliance.org
Students Out Understanding & Loving Sisters (SOULS) at Mary Baldwin College
www.mbc.edu/student_activities/clubsandorgs/#cultural
Southerners on New Ground of Virginia
SVGLA
southernersonnewground.org/
www.svgla.org and SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Valley AIDS Network
www.valleyaidsnetwork.org
Virginia Organizing
www.virginia-organizing.org/issues
Virginia Partisans Gay & Lesbian Democratic Club
People of Faith for Equality in Virginia
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
www.vapartisans.org/
www.faith4equality.org/
Page 10
EV is Virginia’s state-wide, non-partisan education, outreach,
& advocacy organization seeking equality for LGBT Virginians.
Resources for our Community
www.equalityvirginia.org/resources/
New to Virginia: Did you just move to the state? Follow the web link above for a primer for everything you need to know about being an LGBT person in Virginia
Need Support: These are national, statewide and local resources that provide social outlets, support,
health services, and advocate on behalf of the LGBT community
Legal Advice: Equality Virginia provides this directory to LGBT Virginians seeking legal representation and to attorneys working with the LGBT community.
Coming Out: Coming out is not only a critical component of a LGBT individual’s well-being, but of
the well-being of the entire LGBT community. Support is here.
Transgender Resources: Find support and information on gender marker changes and voter laws
that may impact the community. EV believes in a truly inclusive commonwealth where all are equally
welcomed and valued, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.
Looking for a Faith Community: A stronger network of affirming faith communities counters the
tension between LGBT rights and religious freedom. Find affirming communities recommended by
EV’s membership.
Building a Family: While Virginia does not recognize relationships between same-sex couples, there
are still ways to make sure that your family is protected. Although Virginia’s LGBT families may face
challenges in adoption and foster care, there are resources for those looking to start the process.
Facing Discrimination: Have you faced discrimination in employment or housing or have been denied service at a business? Learn more about your rights, Virginia’s laws and what is protected. Find
resources and toolkits to create positive change for LGBT Virginians.
Equality Virginia: Changing Laws, Changing Lives
We are a lay-led, religious community offering a unique spiritual and
moral witness in the Shenandoah
Valley.
We invite all who search for truth
and meaning with open hearts and
open minds to join us in worship, in
mutual support, and in shared ministry to each other and to the world.
HARRISONBURG
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALISTS
One Journey, Many Paths
For more information, contact us at:
http://huuweb.org and (540) 8670073
HUU is a UUA-Certified Welcoming Congregation. We declare our intention to be inclusive and expressive of the concerns of bisexual, gay,
lesbian, and transgender persons at every level of congregational life and
to support the rights of bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people.
First Friday Community Potluck
Every month (usually the first Friday) we host a potluck in
a community member’s home on a rotating basis. Bring a
dish to share if you can and/or sign up to host the potluck.
See upcoming potlucks on pages 10 and 11.
Would you like to host
First Friday in 2014 or 2015?
Email us at SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
COMMUNITY EVENTS SCHEDULE
Thursday, June 5:
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Full page ad for Truth Wins Out/Uganda Story
Thursday, June 5:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At the Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at James Madison University. For more information,
contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or by email at mitchmarke@aol.com
Friday, June 6:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro . Potluck for the GLBT and Ally community sponsored each
month by SVGLA. For information about the potluck, join SVGLA as a Level I or II
member at www.svgla.org).
Saturday, June 7
Capital Pride, Washington DC. For details go http://www.capitalpride.org
Saturday, June 14:
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. At Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church (717 Rugby
Road). For more details and directions contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com.
June 14-16
Busch Gardens Gay Days Weekend, Williamsburg, VA. For more info, go to https://
www.facebook.com/events/168950043258635/
Thursday, June 19
Conversation & Cuisine, 6:30-9:00 PM. Join friends and "family" in SVGLA at
Taste of India 498 University Boulevard in Harrisonburg. For more information go to
www.tasteof indiahbg.com This date is TENTATIVE—join SVGLA at
www.svgla.org/membership.html to receive our email updates.
Saturday, June 21:
SVGLA Adopt-A-Highway Service Project, 8:00 AM We gather at the Little Grill for
breakfast at 8am and then head out for 45 minutes of clean-up work. Join us! We provide
safety vests, gloves, and bags. Make-up date in case of inclement weather is Saturday, June 28.
Thursday, July 3:
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Thursday, July 3:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At the Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at James Madison University. For more information,
contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or by email at mitchmarke@aol.com
Friday, July 4:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro. Potluck for the GLBT and Ally community sponsored each
month by SVGLA. For information about the potluck, join SVGLA as a Level I or II
member at www.svgla.org).
Saturday, July 12:
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. Meet at 7:00, dinner at 7:30. Meet at Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church, 717 Rugby Rd. Contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com for info.
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
Page 13
COMMUNITY EVENTS SCHEDULE
Thursday, July 24
Conversation & Cuisine in the ‘Burg, 6:30-9:00 PM. Join friends and "family" in
SVGLA at Hanks Southern Cuisine and Barbeque on 49 Bloomer Springs Road (just off
Route 33 a few miles east of Harrisonburg) in McGaheysville. For more info go to
www.hankssmokehouse.com/ This date is TENTATIVE—join SVGLA at
www.svgla.org/membership.html to receive our email updates.
Full page ad for Truth Wins Out/Uganda Story
Friday, August 1:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro (for info, join SVGLA as a Level II member at www.svgla.org
Thursday, August 7:
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Thursday, August 7:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at JMU. Contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or
mitchmarke@aol.com for more information.
Saturday, August 9:
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. At Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church (717 Rugby
Road). For more details and directions contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com
Friday, August 15:
DEADLINE, SVGLA newsletter submissions. Send to SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Thursday, August 21
Conversation & Cuisine, 6:30-9:00 PM. Join friends and “family” in SVGLA at Black
Forest German Restaurant at 787 E. Market Street in Harrisonburg. For more information
go to www.facebook.com/BlackforestGermanRestaurant This date is TENTATIVE—
join SVGLA at www.svgla.org/membership.html to receive our email updates.
Saturday, August 23
Thursday, Sept. 4:
SVGLA Adopt-A-Highway Service Project, 8:00 AM We gather at the Little Grill for
breakfast at 8am and then head out for 45 minutes of clean-up work. Join us! We provide
safety vests, gloves, and bags. Make-up date in case of inclement weather is Saturday, Aug. 30. This
date is TENTATIVE. Join SVGLA at www.svgla.org for updates.
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Thursday, Sept. 4:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at JMU. Contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or
mitchmarke@aol.com for more information.
Friday, September 5:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro (for info, join SVGLA at www.svgla.org/membership.html)
Saturday, Sept. 13
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. At Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church (717 Rugby
Road). For more details and directions contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com
Submit items for the monthly events schedule by the 25th of each month to lanedj@jmu.edu
Submit advertisements, milestones, and newsletter items for the September issue by
August 15 to SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
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EMPOWER YOUR
COMMUNITY!
We need your support to continue as a viable and evolving community
presence working on your behalf. The goals of SVGLA are:
To gather and communicate important community information.
To collaborate with allies and inclusive community organizations.
To organize events within the greater Valley area for social and educational
networking with LGBT people.
Level 1 Support—$15 per person
Level 1 support helps SVGLA with mailing and administrative costs throughout the
year. A level 1 commitment of support gets you the following:
Your choice—a hard copy of the newsletter mailed to your address, an e-mailed version of the newsletter, or both.
A vote for members of the SVLGA Board of Directors (MEMBERSHIP RENEWALS DUE
BY DECEMBER 1 TO VOTE FOR AND/OR SERVE ON THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS).
Advance information about SVGLA events
Level I membership is from July—July
Level 2 Support — FREE
Level 2 support keeps you in the loop. A level 2 commitment of support gets you an emailed version of the newsletter and advanced information about all SVGLA events.
CHECK ONE of the following levels of support and complete the form below:
Level 1 Support (please include a check for $15 for each person)
Mailed hard copy of the newsletter
Both
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Level 2 Support - email your name and age to SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Name #1
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Address #1:
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E-mail #1:
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All SVGLA members must be at least 18 years of age to join.
I/we verify that I am/we are at least 18 years of age.
For Level I, please send this form to: SVGLA, P.O. Box 1023, Harrisonburg, VA 22803
2014 SVGLA Board of Directors
(elected by Level I members in February):
Mike Drumheller
Rob Johnson
David Lane
Jackie Walker
Teresa Whitesell
(appointed by the Board in March to reduce vacancies)
JoAnn Benjamin
Congratulations to all Board members and thank you for serving!
Quotable:
“This is not about passing, it
never was. It’s about being YOU,
no matter what society thinks –
and that is beautiful.”
—Sona Avedian
“Hope never dies.”
—Harvey Milk
LGBT Alumni Chapter at JMU
The LGBT & Ally Education Program, Madison
Equality, and LGBT Faculty Staff group at James
Madison University have been working with
JMU’s Alumni Office to create a LGBT & Ally
Alumni Chapter.
A focus of the chapter is on professional networking amongst alumni and recent graduates. Also, we
will be developing a mentorship program with current students.
Possible events for the chapter include receptions at Alumni Weekend, panels
about being Out in the Workplace, GayMU Month, and participation in JMU’s
Lavender Graduation.
We are hoping to find more Alumni who are interested in helping to shape and
launch the chapter. We are tentatively calling the group the JMU Lambda Alumni Chapter.
Those interested in join the chapter can sign up through: http://goo.gl/
hwmtxQ or contact Jon Henry henryjw@dukes.jmu.edu with questions.
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
Website:
www.svgla.org
THE FAMILY
CONNECTSHEN
T HE FAMILY CONNECT SHEN
Mail:
P.O. Box 1023
Harrisonburg, VA 22803
Email:
SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Harvey Milk Honored with Forever Postage Stamp
Mission Statement:
The purpose of the
Shenandoah Valley Gay
and Lesbian Association
is to create a safe, affirming, and fun environment
where members are empowered to reach their
full human potential.
The U.S. Postal Service officially revealed the Harvey Milk Forever Stamp in
May. The stamp’s official first-day-of-issue ceremony took place on May 22 at
the White House. The image is based on a circa 1977 black and white photograph of Milk in front of his Castro Street Camera store in San Francisco.
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Valley Events (pgs. 13-14)
First Friday potlucks
Capital Pride
PFLAG meetings
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EMPOWER YOUR
COMMUNITY!
Join SVGLA
(Membership Form pg. 15)
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The SVGLA “Family
Connectshen” is published quarterly (in
March, June, September, and December).
Contact the editor
SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Harvey Milk was a visionary leader who became one of the first openly gay
elected officials in the US when he won a seat on the San Francisco Board of
Supervisors in 1977. Milk’s achievements gave hope to the LGBT community
in the United States and elsewhere at a time when the community was encountering widespread hostility and discrimination.
His political career was tragically cut short less than a year after he took office
in California when he and San Francisco Mayor George Moscone were assassinated on Nov. 27, 1978.
In 2009, Harvey Milk was posthumously awarded the Medal of Freedom by
President Barack Obama.
Food for Thought:
Memorable Passages in Recent Equal Marriage Decisions
Bernard A. Friedman, Senior United States District Judge, Eastern District of Michigan
Appointed by President Ronald Regan
The state defendants’ position suffers from a glaring inconsistency. Even assuming that children
raised by same-sex couples fare worse than children raised by heterosexual married couples, the state
defendants fail to explain why Michigan law does not similarly exclude certain classes of heterosexual
couples from marrying whose children persistently have had “sub-optimal” developmental outcomes.
Taking the state defendants’ position to its logical conclusion, the empirical evidence at hand should
require that only rich, educated, suburban-dwelling, married Asians may marry, to the exclusion of all
other heterosexual couples. Obviously the state has not adopted this policy and with good reason.
The absurdity of such a requirement is self-evident. Optimal academic outcomes for children cannot
logically dictate which groups may marry.
Many Michigan residents have religious convictions whose principles govern the conduct of their
daily lives and inform their own viewpoints about marriage. Nonetheless, these views cannot strip
other citizens of the guarantees of equal protection under the law. The same Constitution that protects the free exercise of one’s faith in deciding whether to solemnize certain marriages rather than
others, is the same Constitution that prevents the state from either mandating adherence to an established religion or “enforcing private moral or religious beliefs without an accompanying secular purpose.”
Michael J. McShane, United States District Judge, District of Oregon
Appointed by President Barack Obama
Expanding the embrace of civil marriage to gay and lesbian couples will not burden any legitimate
state interest. The attractiveness of marriage to opposite-gender couples is not derived from its inaccessibility to same-gender couples. The well-being of Oregon's children is not enhanced by destabilizing and limiting the rights and resources available to gay and lesbian families.
It is at times difficult to see past the shrillness of the debate. Accusations of religious bigotry and
banners reading "God Hates Fags" make for a messy democracy and, at times, test the First Amendment resolve of both sides. At the core of the Equal Protection Clause, however, there exists a foundational belief that certain rights should be shielded from the barking crowds; that certain rights are
subject to ownership by all and not the stake hold of popular trend or shifting majorities.
If we can look for a moment past gender and sexuality, we can see in these plaintiffs nothing more
or less than our own families. Families who we would expect our Constitution to protect, if not exalt, in equal measure. With discernment we see not shadows lurking in closets or the stereotypes of
what was once believed; rather, we see families committed to the common purpose of love, devotion, and service to the greater community.
Food for Thought:
Memorable Passages in Recent Equal Marriage Decisions
John E. Jones, III, United States District Judge, Middle District of Pennsylvania
Appointed by President George W. Bush
This Court is not only moved by the logic that the fundamental right to marry is a personal right to be exercised by the individual, but also rejects Defendants’ contention that concepts of history and tradition dictate that same-sex marriage is excluded from the fundamental right to marry. The right Plaintiffs seek to
exercise is not a new right, but is rather a right that these individuals have always been guaranteed by the
United States Constitution.
The issue we resolve today is a divisive one. Some of our citizens are made deeply uncomfortable by the
notion of same-sex marriage. However, that same-sex marriage causes discomfort in some does not make
its prohibition constitutional. Nor can past tradition trump the bedrock constitutional guarantees of due
process and equal protection. Were that not so, ours would still be a racially segregated nation according to
the now rightfully discarded doctrine of “separate but equal.” In the sixty years since Brown was decided,
“separate” has thankfully faded into history, and only “equal” remains. Similarly, in future generations the
label same-sex marriage will be abandoned, to be replaced simply by marriage.
We are a better people than what these laws represent, and it is time to discard them into the ash heap of
history.
Same-Sex Marriage Support Reaches New High at 55%
In the latest May 8-11 poll, there is clear evidence that support for gay marriage has solidified above the majority level. This comes on the heels of gay marriage proponents' 14th
The Times They Are A-Changin!
Arkansas: A state judge struck down the state's same-sex marriage ban, although
the state Supreme Court issued a stay to halt same-sex marriages.
Idaho: A federal judge ruled that Idaho's same-sex marriage ban is unconstitutional. It is unclear whether a stay will be issued.
Illinois: Same-sex marriages will be legal as of June 1, 2014.
Indiana: The State Senate passed HJR-6, which would enact a constitutional
amendment to prevent same-sex marriage or civil unions if approved by voters. If
the measure passes again after the 2012 elections, the measure could be on the
ballot in November 2014.
Michigan: A District Court judge struck down the same-sex marriage ban, although the ruling was put on hold.
Nevada: The State Senate and Assembly passed a bill to repeal the state constitutional ban on same-sex marriage and legalize same-sex marriage. The bill will need
to pass again in 2015 to go on the ballot in 2016. Also, Sevcik v. Sandoval is now
on appeal before the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals.
Oklahoma: A federal judge struck down the ban on same-sex marriage, although
the decision was stayed by the governor pending an appeal.
Pennsylvania: May 2014: Marriage is legal - A federal judge struck down the
state's same-sex marriage ban and allowed same-sex marriages to begin immediately.
Texas: A federal judge struck down the same-sex marriage ban as unconstitutional, although he stayed his ruling pending appeal from the state.
Utah: A federal judge struck down the ban on same-sex marriage, although the
decision was stayed by the governor pending an appeal.
Virginia: A federal judge struck down the same-sex marriage ban in the case Bostic
v. Rainey. The ruling was stayed pending appeal.
PFLAG Blue Ridge
Serving Charlottesville, Harrisonburg, and
Surrounding Central Virginia Areas
We are parents, families, friends, and allies uniting with
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender loved ones to
promote support, education, and advocacy.
www.pflagblueridge.org
PFLAGBR@gmail.com
https://www.facebook.com/pflagblueridge
https://twitter.com/PFLAGBR
PFLAG Blue Ridge offers free monthly community groups for anyone who identifies as
lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or questioning, as well as parents, family, friends,
and allies. If you are a parent, family member, or friend of a gay, lesbian, bisexual, and/or
transgender individual looking to increase your support, or if your loved one has recently
come out to you and you are struggling to process your own feelings as well as looking for
resources to help understand — we are here for you. Join us as we share our experiences, joys,
concerns, and resources in a confidential and non-judgmental environment.
Meeting Information
Harrisonburg LGBTQ+ and Allies Group Meetings
When:
Where:
Contact:
Note:
First Thursday of each month, 6:30 - 8:00 p.m.
Blue Ridge Hall, Room 309, 601 University Blvd, JMU
Facilitator Mark at mitchmarke@aol.com or 540-405-1227
Meetings coincide with Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Group
Charlottesville Trans* Families Group Meetings
When:
Where:
Contact:
3rd Saturday of each month, 5:30 - 7:00 p.m.
ASG, 315 Tenth St. NE, Charlottesville, VA 22902 (corner of 10th & Jefferson)
Facilitator Karen at karenmeandering@gmail.com or 434-882-3453
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Meetings
The Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance holds meetings the first Thursday of each
month from 6:30 to 8:00pm at Blue Ridge Hall, Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on
the campus of JMU.
Young people aged 14-20 from the Harrisonburg and surrounding communities who
identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning are welcome to
attend. We aim to provide a safe and confidential space for youth to talk, listen,
laugh, share, and reflect on what it's like to be an LGBTQ teen in the Shenandoah
Valley.
PFLAG Blue Ridge (www.pflagblueridge.org/harrisonburg.html) also holds meetings on the first Thursday of each month in the same building.
Visit our website at http://www.svyesalliance.org/index.html or Facebook page
(www.facebook.com/SVYesAlliance). Please like us and share with your friends!
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance e-mail address: svyesalliance@gmail.com
YOUR ADVERTISEMENT HERE!
$15/issue or $50/year (4 issues): Business Card
$25 per issue or $80/year: Quarter Page
$50/issue or $175/year: Half Page
$100 for a Full Page ad per issue
Contact SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Deadline for September newsletter is August 15
We’ve Adopted a Highway!
SVGLA has adopted a section of highway near Harrisonburg
through the Virginia Department of Transportation.
It’s fun, it’s good exercise, and it’s great for our planet.
Help us be good neighbors in our community.
Our next outing is Sat., June 21
(June 28 is the makeup date).
Meet us for breakfast at 8am, then we’ll tidy up the highway afterward.
Help SVGLA on June 21 and receive a gift
card for a FREE wine-tasting at
The Winery at Kindred Pointe
The first three NEW volunteers who join us at the
Little Grill in Harrisonburg for breakfast and help
with the Adopt-a-Highway cleanup afterward will receive a gift card for a FREE wine tasting at the Winery at Kindred Pointe in Mount Jackson (donated by
Christine Robinson). Contact SVGLAssociation@gmail.com if you have questions.
www.facebook.com/TheWineryAtKindredPointe
www.kindredpointe.com/#!wineryvineyard
Community Organizations
American Civil Liberties Union of Virginia
acluva.org/tag/equal-rights/
BC Allies (Bridgewater College) www.bridgewater.edu/student-life/activities-andorganizations/clubs-organizations-and-honor-societies
Coalition for Transgender Rights in Virginia
Equality Virginia
transgenderrightsva.org/
www.equalityvirginia.org
EMU Safe Space
www.emu.edu/studentlife/clubs/safe-space/
JMU LGBTQ Faculty & Staff Group
www.jmu.edu/lgbtfacultystaff
JMU LGBT & Ally Education Program
www.jmu.edu/lgbta/
LGBT Democrats of Virginia
lgbtvadem.org/
Log Cabin Republican Club of Virginia
www.virginialogcabin.org/
Madison Equality JMU
www.facebook.com/madisonequality
PFLAG Blue Ridge
www.pflagblueridge.org and pflagbr@gmail.com
Safe Zone JMU
www.jmu.edu/safezone/
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance
www.svyesalliance.org
Students Out Understanding & Loving Sisters (SOULS) at Mary Baldwin College
www.mbc.edu/student_activities/clubsandorgs/#cultural
Southerners on New Ground of Virginia
SVGLA
southernersonnewground.org/
www.svgla.org and SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Valley AIDS Network
www.valleyaidsnetwork.org
Virginia Organizing
www.virginia-organizing.org/issues
Virginia Partisans Gay & Lesbian Democratic Club
People of Faith for Equality in Virginia
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
www.vapartisans.org/
www.faith4equality.org/
Page 10
EV is Virginia’s state-wide, non-partisan education, outreach,
& advocacy organization seeking equality for LGBT Virginians.
Resources for our Community
www.equalityvirginia.org/resources/
New to Virginia: Did you just move to the state? Follow the web link above for a primer for everything you need to know about being an LGBT person in Virginia
Need Support: These are national, statewide and local resources that provide social outlets, support,
health services, and advocate on behalf of the LGBT community
Legal Advice: Equality Virginia provides this directory to LGBT Virginians seeking legal representation and to attorneys working with the LGBT community.
Coming Out: Coming out is not only a critical component of a LGBT individual’s well-being, but of
the well-being of the entire LGBT community. Support is here.
Transgender Resources: Find support and information on gender marker changes and voter laws
that may impact the community. EV believes in a truly inclusive commonwealth where all are equally
welcomed and valued, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.
Looking for a Faith Community: A stronger network of affirming faith communities counters the
tension between LGBT rights and religious freedom. Find affirming communities recommended by
EV’s membership.
Building a Family: While Virginia does not recognize relationships between same-sex couples, there
are still ways to make sure that your family is protected. Although Virginia’s LGBT families may face
challenges in adoption and foster care, there are resources for those looking to start the process.
Facing Discrimination: Have you faced discrimination in employment or housing or have been denied service at a business? Learn more about your rights, Virginia’s laws and what is protected. Find
resources and toolkits to create positive change for LGBT Virginians.
Equality Virginia: Changing Laws, Changing Lives
We are a lay-led, religious community offering a unique spiritual and
moral witness in the Shenandoah
Valley.
We invite all who search for truth
and meaning with open hearts and
open minds to join us in worship, in
mutual support, and in shared ministry to each other and to the world.
HARRISONBURG
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALISTS
One Journey, Many Paths
For more information, contact us at:
http://huuweb.org and (540) 8670073
HUU is a UUA-Certified Welcoming Congregation. We declare our intention to be inclusive and expressive of the concerns of bisexual, gay,
lesbian, and transgender persons at every level of congregational life and
to support the rights of bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people.
First Friday Community Potluck
Every month (usually the first Friday) we host a potluck in
a community member’s home on a rotating basis. Bring a
dish to share if you can and/or sign up to host the potluck.
See upcoming potlucks on pages 10 and 11.
Would you like to host
First Friday in 2014 or 2015?
Email us at SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
COMMUNITY EVENTS SCHEDULE
Thursday, June 5:
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Full page ad for Truth Wins Out/Uganda Story
Thursday, June 5:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At the Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at James Madison University. For more information,
contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or by email at mitchmarke@aol.com
Friday, June 6:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro . Potluck for the GLBT and Ally community sponsored each
month by SVGLA. For information about the potluck, join SVGLA as a Level I or II
member at www.svgla.org).
Saturday, June 7
Capital Pride, Washington DC. For details go http://www.capitalpride.org
Saturday, June 14:
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. At Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church (717 Rugby
Road). For more details and directions contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com.
June 14-16
Busch Gardens Gay Days Weekend, Williamsburg, VA. For more info, go to https://
www.facebook.com/events/168950043258635/
Thursday, June 19
Conversation & Cuisine, 6:30-9:00 PM. Join friends and "family" in SVGLA at
Taste of India 498 University Boulevard in Harrisonburg. For more information go to
www.tasteof indiahbg.com This date is TENTATIVE—join SVGLA at
www.svgla.org/membership.html to receive our email updates.
Saturday, June 21:
SVGLA Adopt-A-Highway Service Project, 8:00 AM We gather at the Little Grill for
breakfast at 8am and then head out for 45 minutes of clean-up work. Join us! We provide
safety vests, gloves, and bags. Make-up date in case of inclement weather is Saturday, June 28.
Thursday, July 3:
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Thursday, July 3:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At the Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at James Madison University. For more information,
contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or by email at mitchmarke@aol.com
Friday, July 4:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro. Potluck for the GLBT and Ally community sponsored each
month by SVGLA. For information about the potluck, join SVGLA as a Level I or II
member at www.svgla.org).
Saturday, July 12:
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. Meet at 7:00, dinner at 7:30. Meet at Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church, 717 Rugby Rd. Contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com for info.
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
Page 13
COMMUNITY EVENTS SCHEDULE
Thursday, July 24
Conversation & Cuisine in the ‘Burg, 6:30-9:00 PM. Join friends and "family" in
SVGLA at Hanks Southern Cuisine and Barbeque on 49 Bloomer Springs Road (just off
Route 33 a few miles east of Harrisonburg) in McGaheysville. For more info go to
www.hankssmokehouse.com/ This date is TENTATIVE—join SVGLA at
www.svgla.org/membership.html to receive our email updates.
Full page ad for Truth Wins Out/Uganda Story
Friday, August 1:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro (for info, join SVGLA as a Level II member at www.svgla.org
Thursday, August 7:
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Thursday, August 7:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at JMU. Contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or
mitchmarke@aol.com for more information.
Saturday, August 9:
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. At Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church (717 Rugby
Road). For more details and directions contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com
Friday, August 15:
DEADLINE, SVGLA newsletter submissions. Send to SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Thursday, August 21
Conversation & Cuisine, 6:30-9:00 PM. Join friends and “family” in SVGLA at Black
Forest German Restaurant at 787 E. Market Street in Harrisonburg. For more information
go to www.facebook.com/BlackforestGermanRestaurant This date is TENTATIVE—
join SVGLA at www.svgla.org/membership.html to receive our email updates.
Saturday, August 23
Thursday, Sept. 4:
SVGLA Adopt-A-Highway Service Project, 8:00 AM We gather at the Little Grill for
breakfast at 8am and then head out for 45 minutes of clean-up work. Join us! We provide
safety vests, gloves, and bags. Make-up date in case of inclement weather is Saturday, Aug. 30. This
date is TENTATIVE. Join SVGLA at www.svgla.org for updates.
Shenandoah Valley YES! Alliance Youth Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM in Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 326, 601 University Blvd. on the James Madison University campus in Harrisonburg. For more information, see page 5 or go to svyesalliance@gmail.com
Thursday, Sept. 4:
PFLAG Harrisonburg Support Group Meeting, 6:30-8:00 PM At Blue Ridge Hall,
Room 309, 601 University Blvd at JMU. Contact facilitator Mark at 540-405-1227 or
mitchmarke@aol.com for more information.
Friday, September 5:
First Friday Potluck, 6:30-9:00 PM, Augusta & Rockingham Counties, Harrisonburg,
Staunton, and Waynesboro (for info, join SVGLA at www.svgla.org/membership.html)
Saturday, Sept. 13
Men’s “Second Saturday” Potluck, 7:00-9:30 PM Potluck for gay/bi/trans-friendly men
Bring food or beverage for 5 people. At Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church (717 Rugby
Road). For more details and directions contact cville_gmsc@yahoogroups.com
Submit items for the monthly events schedule by the 25th of each month to lanedj@jmu.edu
Submit advertisements, milestones, and newsletter items for the September issue by
August 15 to SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Volume 17, Issue 2, June 2014
Page 14
EMPOWER YOUR
COMMUNITY!
We need your support to continue as a viable and evolving community
presence working on your behalf. The goals of SVGLA are:
To gather and communicate important community information.
To collaborate with allies and inclusive community organizations.
To organize events within the greater Valley area for social and educational
networking with LGBT people.
Level 1 Support—$15 per person
Level 1 support helps SVGLA with mailing and administrative costs throughout the
year. A level 1 commitment of support gets you the following:
Your choice—a hard copy of the newsletter mailed to your address, an e-mailed version of the newsletter, or both.
A vote for members of the SVLGA Board of Directors (MEMBERSHIP RENEWALS DUE
BY DECEMBER 1 TO VOTE FOR AND/OR SERVE ON THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS).
Advance information about SVGLA events
Level I membership is from July—July
Level 2 Support — FREE
Level 2 support keeps you in the loop. A level 2 commitment of support gets you an emailed version of the newsletter and advanced information about all SVGLA events.
CHECK ONE of the following levels of support and complete the form below:
Level 1 Support (please include a check for $15 for each person)
Mailed hard copy of the newsletter
Both
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Level 2 Support - email your name and age to SVGLAssociation@gmail.com
Name #1
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Address #1:
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E-mail #1:
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All SVGLA members must be at least 18 years of age to join.
I/we verify that I am/we are at least 18 years of age.
For Level I, please send this form to: SVGLA, P.O. Box 1023, Harrisonburg, VA 22803
2014 SVGLA Board of Directors
(elected by Level I members in February):
Mike Drumheller
Rob Johnson
David Lane
Jackie Walker
Teresa Whitesell
(appointed by the Board in March to reduce vacancies)
JoAnn Benjamin
Congratulations to all Board members and thank you for serving!
Quotable:
“This is not about passing, it
never was. It’s about being YOU,
no matter what society thinks –
and that is beautiful.”
—Sona Avedian
“Hope never dies.”
—Harvey Milk
LGBT Alumni Chapter at JMU
The LGBT & Ally Education Program, Madison
Equality, and LGBT Faculty Staff group at James
Madison University have been working with
JMU’s Alumni Office to create a LGBT & Ally
Alumni Chapter.
A focus of the chapter is on professional networking amongst alumni and recent graduates. Also, we
will be developing a mentorship program with current students.
Possible events for the chapter include receptions at Alumni Weekend, panels
about being Out in the Workplace, GayMU Month, and participation in JMU’s
Lavender Graduation.
We are hoping to find more Alumni who are interested in helping to shape and
launch the chapter. We are tentatively calling the group the JMU Lambda Alumni Chapter.
Those interested in join the chapter can sign up through: http://goo.gl/
hwmtxQ or contact Jon Henry henryjw@dukes.jmu.edu with questions.